Monday, February 16, 2009

Step into Africa

Yesterday Nick, Tony, and I went to an exibit in Athens called "Step into Africa" that was put on by World Vision. In case you don't know, World Vision is an organization that works all over the world to support and help those in poverty. One of the main things they do is child sponsorship, where you give a certain amount of money every month to take care of a specific kid, and you exchange letters and pictures with them... This particular event was focusing on the huge crisis cause by AIDS on the continent of Africa. Every vistor gets an identity of a child and then you walk through that child's story listening to a headset. My name was Emmanuel...

Emmanuel is from Uganda. Uganda is in southern Africa, where the AIDS problem is the worst. He lives with his mother and brother, named Fred. Fred is a few year older than Emmanuel. Their father died before Emmanuel was born, of a mysterious disease...

When Emmanual was 3, his mother began to get sick. Finally Fred, who was 8, borrowed a bicycle from a neighbor and pushed their momma for half a day to get her to the medical clinic. They gave her medicines, and after a month, sent her home. She used up the medicines, and got sicker and sicker. One day she didn't wake up...

The boys carried their mother into the nearby banana grove and buried her there. They walked miles and miles to their aunt's house, but when they got there their aunt made them leave. She said that their mother made their father sick, and that she gave them the disease, too. So they walked the miles back home. They had brought all they owned with them, but their aunt took everything from them but two blankets and a cooking pot. Finally they made it back home.

They lived alone for a little bit, but one night a huge storm came. It rained so much that it caused their little hut to collapse. Fred took Emmanuel back to the banana grove where their mother was buried and they built a little shelter out of banana leaves and stuff. They lived there for awhile, two kids, trying to survive.

One day a neighbor came through the grove and saw the boys and how they were living. He told them he would help them build a better shelter. They worked and built a small shelter out of mud and sticks. It was much better than where they were living in the grove. The boys lived there for a few years, somehow finding food and staying alive. I guess when you are forced to do whatever necessary to find food, you somehow manage to find what you can...

Emmanuel began to get sick. It would come and go, but it worried Fred. Fred met a teacher one day who explained to him what AIDS was. Up until that point, the boys didn't know what it was that had made they mother and father so sick and killed them... But now, was Emmanuel sick, too? Fred took him to the clinic one day, saying that they needed to find out if Emmanuel had this AIDS, if their mother had given it to him at birth. Emmanueal was scared. He was about 6 now. He didn't want to die. He had seen how sick his mother was, nursed her through her dreaded disease, and watched her die, still too young to really even understand what was happening. He took the test and waited. Finally they called his name and he went up to the window to get his results. He was HIV...negative.

The boys went back to their shelter and continued with their life. One day a World Vision worker found the boys and saw how they were living. He took them and found sponsors for them. With the money from the sponsors, World Vision was able to build a small two room house for the boys and provide healthy food and water, and education. Now Emmanuel is 11, and Fred is about 16. And they are finally okay.

This kind of thing happens everyday in Africa. Every 14 seconds, a child is orphaned because of this horrible disease. There are thousands of children living in Africa just like Emmanuel and Fred, trying to survive, but not really knowing how or what to do. Without our help, they won't really have a chance. I know it seems a world away, and it's hard to really understand from all the way over here in America... But think of it this way - when those mothers and fathers were sick and dying, I bet they worried and prayed that somehow their kids would be okay. And, in a lot of cases, World Vision and other organizations like it, are the answers to those prayers. We can help. We can be the answer.

And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones because he is my disciple, I tell you the truth, he will certainly not lose his reward.
Matthew 10:42

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Leaving Guilt-Driven Faith

I found this article on Relevant Magazine's website. It's called 'Leaving Guilt-Driven Faith' and is very thought provoking. I have had this conversation with myself many times and am so glad I've found freedom from, yet again, another burden we tend to place on ourselves as Christians. By no means have I completely gotten past it, as we never do, but it did finally click that we don't have anything to feel guilty about... anything we've done has been forgiven, if we're found in Him. I spent so many years trying so hard to live up to the dreaded 'standard' that I set for myself... 'Follow the rules and you will be blessed and highly favored..." Once again, keep it simple...

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Bailout from Busyness

We've been going to this really great church in Hartwell some lately. It's called Real Life, and it's a satellite of a church in Texas. We both really like it - it's real laid back, no pressure, good word, pretty good music (the worship leader is my dentist - how weird is that)...

So, on Sunday the sermon was entitled "Bailout from Busyness". It totally goes right along with all the stuff that Nick and I have been talking about and dealing with lately. You can check out their site and the sermon online here (click on "Bailout 2"). Here's the outline:

Psalm 23:2

Americans are so busy...
34% skip exercise
38% skip enough sleep
55% skip church
58% skip lunch
75% of couples skip quality time together

Reluctance to rest is a sign of immaturity.

"Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest." Mark 6:31

Recalculate my value
"God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5:8

Enjoy what I already have
"Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share." 1 Timothy 6:17-18

Schedule time for the most important things
"I've learned why people work so hard to succeed; it is because they envy the things their neighbors have." Ecclesiastes 4:4

Trade the world's pressure for God's peace
"Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you'll recover your life. I"ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me - watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won't layanything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you'll learn to live freely and lightly." Matthew 11:28-29

Nick's Birthday

Yesterday was Nick's birthday. We both played hookie from work and just hung out all day together. We had a ball - we took the bike out, rode around, went shopping, ate good food. It was fun. I really love my hubby.

He said it was pretty weird that he was born during one of the worst blizzards in Minnesota's history, and 27 years later, it's 70 degrees on his birthday...

I bought a kinda 3-in-1 Donald Miller book, and I've started reading Blue Like Jazz (yeah, about 5 years too late!). I'll let you know what I think.

Friday, February 6, 2009

I kinda like this guy...

Yesterday I read an article about President Obama's speech at the National Prayer Breakfast and his establishing the Office of Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships. It was really very interesting... I went back later to read it again, and somehow it had been changed - guess it pissed some people off...

So this morning I decided to look up the text of what he actually said. You can read it here. Please go check it out. Not only does he show that he really is focusing on helping people, but he talks about his religious upbringing and conversion to Christianity. Straight from the horse's mouth. I tend to agree with him - yes, people need to get saved, but if more people showed love, there would probably end up being more salvations.

I'm starting to really like this guy...

Monday, February 2, 2009

Wedding Bells and Ozzy

My aunt, Connie, got married Saturday. It was definitely an interesting time... We had so much fun - all my cousins were there, and we goofed off like we were 10 again. We danced, sang karaoke, and I got completely stressed out trying to make sure things ran smoothly. I don't see how my wedding planner friend, Mary Ellen, does it... But then again, I guess she actually knows what is going on before the rehearsal dinner... Anyway, it was fun. My cousin Rita started off the karaoke by singing Ozzy Osborne. I'm sure Connie would have had a heart attack if she knew that... lol...

Since my mom did the decorations, Nick and I ended up staying at the church until almost midnight cleaning up. If I EVER see another fake rose petal again I think I will hide under a church pew and never come out... I thought we'd never get done, but of course we did, then headed to the WH for a waffle with all my others aunties and my mom. They all were amazed that Nick stayed and helped clean up, especially since all of Connie's kids and everyone else skipped out... I have the most awesome husband ever.